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[Lost]

no worries. It's cool. Sorry if I've been a bia... not my intentions at all. Just tell me if I'm being too much of a bia and I'll knock it off. I'm Portuguese- I've got the bi*ch (can I say that w/o getting in trouble?) gene in me. Trying to suppress it but it definitely comes out from time to time. Hahaha. BEWARE!!!! jk

Once your here awhile you will see that sooner or later everyone lets loose and gets mad. It healthy . Go ahead and vent . Its just a fact of life.

So let it fly ,put us in our place . It wont do any good but you'll feel better.

 

[BlondeGurli]

it's not me getting mad at you guys- it's stuff going on w/ me. I'm surprised I've not ended up in a nut house yet. Chris does a pretty good job of keeping me sane. I vent to him a lot of the times- you'd all go crazy if I were to vent on here. No worries tho- taking it day by day and making decisions as they come (no matter how hard they are). I'm sure you know how it goes... but damn. There's only so much a 21 year old can take, ya know? Soon enough, things will start to get better. Just a waiting game now.

But thanks for the concern

 

[john112deere]

You can vent, or drink, or break things.

I do all three, fairly regularly...

 

[Lost]

it's not me getting mad at you guys- it's stuff going on w/ me. I'm surprised I've not ended up in a nut house yet. Chris does a pretty good job of keeping me sane. I vent to him a lot of the times- you'd all go crazy if I were to vent on here. No worries tho- taking it day by day and making decisions as they come (no matter how hard they are). I'm sure you know how it goes... but damn. There's only so much a 21 year old can take, ya know? Soon enough, things will start to get better. Just a waiting game now.

But thanks for the concern

Well deep inside Skan has good points (Can't say more his head will swell) . I remember the early 20's. So you vent to us any time. No Charge for FTF counseling

Lost

 

[6L PWR]

You can vent, or drink, or break things.

I do all three, fairly regularly...

I'm allergic to alcohol, so i can't vent there. I used to break things, but I bought a 200 lb heavy bag. WORKS WONDERS!!

Trista, never be afraid to use the forum to vent. We don't start the teasing until we know you're good and back to normal. After that, it's on! ROFL Just ask Skank, I mean, Chaboo, shoot, I mean Chris! There!!

 

[lenny1carl]

You can drink, or drink, or break things.

I do all three, fairly regularly...

i do those all the time. i thought it was normal.

Trista not to worry ma'am. you and Chris are among friends. he has more history here and i, and i'm sure all, consider him a friend and because of that we include you as friend.
we bust because he busts back, and i for one, hope you know that includes you. i'd say you could bend anyone's ear if you chose to do so.
anyways...i've said what i had to. i hope it eases your concern. Chris is still a Chabong'er

 

[mtflat]

... but damn. There's only so much a 21 year old can take, ya know? Soon enough, things will start to get better. Just a waiting game now.

But thanks for the concern

Yeah, I know ........ hang in there - it only lasts for 365 days, then you turn 22. Does that help??

 

[john112deere]

I used to break things, but I bought a 200 lb heavy bag. WORKS WONDERS!!

Patching drywall is too much work, so I punch brick walls...

And Trista, like the other clowns said- if Chris vouches for you, your a friend of mine, anyway (and probably most all of FTF) so go ahead and vent if you need to.

 

[Skandocious]

I remember the early 20's.

I thought memory started to erase itself after 40 or 50 years... Guess you proved me wrong

 

[Blue Goose]

I think he meant 1920's...

 

[Andyman8282]

taking it day by day and making decisions as they come (no matter how hard they are). I'm sure you know how it goes... but damn. There's only so much a 21 year old can take, ya know? Soon enough, things will start to get better. Just a waiting game now.

But thanks for the concern

You referring to the stresses that college life brings? If so, you're not alone, it's a big waiting game for me too

 

[polarbear]

Dayum, I hate to turn a little serious and all.... but this is the perfect place to vent. Hell, If you can't rant amonst friends, where can ya, ya know? And these are friends. We met Aaron for the first time, and felt like I'd know him for years. Amazing world we live in.

Speaking of ranting..... I don't drink, but after today I might re-consider that.

 

[BlondeGurli]

it's not necessarily about ranting, just stressing. I should have used better diction. It's school stuff (well, not so much anymore I guess), living situation, health, bills bc of health, the uncertainty of the future, not being able to see certain people... idk. It's just a lot. I don't wanna sound like I'm bitching, whining, or asking for attention. I don't know. I just want to turn my cell off and drive to the beach and just chill with Rob- to get away from everything. Ya know?

 

[Skandocious]

it's not necessarily about ranting, just stressing. I should have used better diction. It's school stuff (well, not so much anymore I guess), living situation, health, bills bc of health, the uncertainty of the future, not being able to see certain people... idk. It's just a lot. I don't wanna sound like I'm bitching, whining, or asking for attention. I don't know. I just want to turn my cell off and drive to the beach and just chill with Rob- to get away from everything. Ya know?

Rob = her dog. She's not cheating on me. FYI

 

[john112deere]

^^Do it.^^

I drink because it's cheaper and easier than going for a good long drive...not because it works worth a damn. I've had my share of 200 mile drives to nowhere, when it just couldn't take it no more. (I don't have a dog here at school, so I talked to the truck, but I bet Rob is a better listener...)

Last spring, was, uh, an interesting semester for me, and I drove a LOT of miles. Some of 'em, its a wonder I survived, but most of 'em were just long late nights...stare down your demons, figure out what you need to do for you.

 

[BlondeGurli]

this whole year has been one thing after another. Seriously, I'm not joking when I say this in the SLIGHTEST bit- I have the worst luck EVER. Hands down. Chris will vouch. And when it rains, it doesn't poor- it FLOODS. Can't complain too much bc I'm alive and breathing. When I get beyond stressed out, I drive to Chris' house and stay the night (it's not safe to go to the beach in the middle of the night here plus it's on a super windy highway). I bought my car May 29th of last year and I've put about 15,000 miles on it (most in the last 6 months). What can you do besides take it day by day and hope for the best? If you guys could just send good vibes my way and possibly pray for me every once in a while, that'd make me happy The more good vibes, the better.

 

[BlondeGurli]

and Rob is OUR dog

 

[lenny1carl]

I think he meant 1920's...

this has nothing to do with your birthday you old commie

 

[O'Rattlecan]

this whole year has been one thing after another. Seriously, I'm not joking when I say this in the SLIGHTEST bit- I have the worst luck EVER. Hands down. Chris will vouch. And when it rains, it doesn't poor- it FLOODS. Can't complain too much bc I'm alive and breathing. When I get beyond stressed out, I drive to Chris' house and stay the night (it's not safe to go to the beach in the middle of the night here plus it's on a super windy highway). I bought my car May 29th of last year and I've put about 15,000 miles on it (most in the last 6 months). What can you do besides take it day by day and hope for the best? If you guys could just send good vibes my way and possibly pray for me every once in a while, that'd make me happy The more good vibes, the better.

God won't throw more at you than you can handle. You're building character.

Ryan

 

[BlondeGurli]

yeah, well God should let me build character at a more realistic pace. I can't handle a bunch at once. It's prolly only gonna get worse for the next month and a half, but then hopefully it will get better. Slowly but surely