If you have a misfire or rough running, thats the easy way to diagnose (look for the misfire, theres the source of the leak). But unfortunately, thats not a guaranteed method. When the 03 had all their troubles, I was putting dye in the secondary fuel filter housing, commanding the fuel pump to run, and with the valve covers off, using a blacklight to see where the dyed fuel was coming from. Sounds like yours is a slight leak, so, its not going to be easy to locate.How can you tell if it going bad, Beside fuel in the oil, ? noise or just ODC.